Month: March 2013

Black in Response

First let me start off by saying that I am 100% proud to be a black man. And I joke a lot about white people but the truth of the matter is that I realized a long time ago that not every white person is out to get you and not every black person will have your back. And yes,… Read more →


This day is almost over my friends. And it was super fuckin’ busy. It was, in fact, so ridiculously busy that I had no time to stop and write. But here I am now, at 11:02 PM with my motivation. And it’s gonna be a quickie because I’m sleepy as shit and ready to melt away into dreams for the… Read more →


As I look out of my window, the snowflakes gently whizzing by looking like tiny stars dancing across a cold gray background I look to the Heavens at Mother Nature, roll my eyes and sigh. Really Bitch? After TWO DAYS of anticipating this nut ass weather NOW you choose to snow? After I’ve already postponed doing certain things because I… Read more →


“What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun.” Ecclesiastes 9:1 I never realized that these words came from the Bible but you know what, it makes absolute sense. Because a quote so timeless could only come from one of the oldest books in the history of the… Read more →

Don’t You Just Hate…..

…..When you have a thought flash through your mind at a moment when you can’t write it down then after a couple of hours, when you’re finally sitting down, you can’t remember what you were thinking about!!! Well, that’s what has happened to me. I had an idea for a blog post earlier, and it was a good one (or… Read more →

Hopped Up Out The Bed

Normally on Monday mornings my routine goes a little bit like this: a) Wake up to the alarm on my phone, barely opening my eyes b) Hit Snooze c) Hit Snooze d) Hit Snooze e) Realize that I hit Snooze one too many times and rush to get out of the house before 7:15 Depending on how badly I behaved… Read more →

Sometimes You’ve Gots To Chill

Right before I got off work my liver called and said ‘Ben….when’s the last time you abused me just a little? Come on!’ It’s like Ke$ha’s producers calling her to record another album. Sure, everyone involved knows it’s a bad idea….but why the fuck not, right? It won’t be that bad. Well, let me just tell you that what started… Read more →